Close Menu
What to Say When Proposing: Crafting the Perfect “Will You Marry Me?” Moment

What to Say When Proposing: Crafting the Perfect “Will You Marry Me?” Moment

So, you’ve got the ring – a sparkling stunner from Tailored Jewel Malaysia, no less! Now comes the big question: “What am I supposed to say when proposing?” Don’t worry; you’re not alone. Planning a proposal speech can be nerve-wracking, but with a few heartfelt touches and a little creativity, you can make it an unforgettable moment. Here’s how to craft the perfect proposal speech that’s romantic, genuine, and a little funny.

1. Start with a Sweet Memory

Begin by taking a walk down memory lane. Think of the moment you first met, your first date, or a memory that means a lot to both of you. Mentioning a shared memory sets a warm, personal tone and shows that you’ve been thinking about your journey together.

Example:

“Remember our first date when I got lost trying to find the restaurant? I’ll never forget how patient you were, or how much fun we had getting ‘lost’ together.”

By bringing up a memorable moment, you’re letting them know that the time you’ve spent together is precious to you – the perfect starting point for your proposal.

2. Compliment Them – Be Specific!

Compliments are the heart of a great proposal speech. Think of a quality you admire in your partner – their kindness, sense of humor, ambition, or how they make you feel when you’re around them. Specific, genuine compliments show you’ve put thought into your words.

Example:

“You make every day better with your kindness and laughter. You’re my home, my best friend, and the person I want to laugh with for the rest of my life.”

Go for words that capture their personality. A genuine compliment goes a long way and makes the moment feel even more intimate.

3. Share Why There’re “The One”

Here’s where you go big. Tell them exactly why they’re the one for you – the reason you’re ready to spend the rest of your life with them. Think of moments that made you think, “Yep, this is my person.”

Example:

“I knew you were the one when you stayed up all night with me, just because I was feeling down. That’s when I realized you’re not only the love of my life but my rock, too.”

Highlighting a moment like this makes your partner feel seen, appreciated, and loved – just what you want on such a big occasion.

4. Paint a Picture of Your Future Together

Let them know you’ve thought about the future, and you see them right there with you. Whether it’s traveling, starting a family, or just making pancakes together every Sunday morning, a glimpse into your shared future can add depth and warmth to your proposal.

Example:

“I can’t wait for all the mornings we’ll spend together, making breakfast, planning adventures, and just… living life by each other’s side.”

This step reassures your partner that you’re not just in the moment – you’re in for the long haul. It’s about dreaming together, building a life that’s just for the two of you.

4. Pop the Question

Now, it’s time for the big moment! Take a deep breath, get down on one knee (yes, it’s still the gold standard), and go for it. You can say it simply or add a little personal twist. The classic “Will you marry me?” never fails, but if you want to make it your own, go for it!

Example:

“So, what do you say? Will you make me the happiest person in the world and marry me?”

This moment doesn’t need anything fancy – it’s raw, real, and, well, it’s the question. Just ask it with all your heart, and you’ll be golden.

6. Celebrate the Yes!

If all goes well, you’re about to hear the most beautiful “Yes!” of your life. Cue the celebration! Whether you have a family dinner planned or just a quiet moment for two, make sure you both savor it. This is your moment to remember, so be fully present. And if you’ve arranged for a photographer or friend to capture the proposal, it’s time for those Instagram-worthy shots!

***Quick Tips for Proposal Success

Practice a Little: You don’t need a full script, but practicing can help with the jitters.

Stay True to Your Style: If you’re funny, add a light-hearted moment. If you’re more romantic, lean into it!

Relax and Enjoy: It’s natural to feel nervous, but don’t forget to enjoy this beautiful moment.

The Perfect Ring for the Perfect Proposal

Having the right ring makes everything feel just right, and with Tailored Jewel Malaysia, you can choose from a range of stunning engagement rings that match her style and your budget.

Remember, this proposal is a moment that’s all about your unique love story. Be real, be yourself, and make it as memorable as the love you two share. Here’s to a beautiful proposal and a lifetime of happiness ahead!

Where To Find Us?

Remember, this proposal is a moment that’s all about your unique love story. Be real, be yourself, and make it as memorable as the love you two share. Here’s to a beautiful proposal and a lifetime of happiness ahead!

We're ready to serve you
Visit Our Store

Open daily from 10.00am to 8.00pm. Walk-in or by appointment.

View Locations
Book an Appointment

Schedule for an in-store visit or a virtual appointment.

Book Now
Call or Chat Online

Available daily from 10.00am to 8.00pm. UTC/GMT +8 hours

Submit Enquiry

Drop us an enquiry and we’ll get in touch with you via email.

Send Now
Contact